Circle Jerk! Who's Game?

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Men are horny motherfuckers. There's no secret about that. We're ready to whip that bad boy out for some fun any time any where. But, have you ever kept track of how much sex you get?

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That was the subject in Dear Abby yesterday...readers responding to a letter by a woman who had complained that her husband tracked their sex, demanding they hit at least 100 times per year. Abby gave equal time: 2 women, 2 men. One woman said it was okay; that this was the husband's way of expressing love. One claimed it was bullshit. Both guys, of course, indicated getting our rocks off was all-important to men. One went so far as to say that husbands should be free to get their rocks off with anyone else should the partner not be interested. They all had valid points, but nobody mentioned masturbation in any way shape of form.

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This goes for any partnered couple of any sexual orientation. Guys, we should have the freedom to pound one out whenever we feel the need.

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But, beyond that, what most married hetero men do is sneak out, grab the corner hooker, or find some way to get a quick hand job or blow job.

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Some have a regular buddy - a friend with benefits they can call on.

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Barring that, I'm here to suggest to you, my Faithful Readers, that you could consider an alternative: a Jack-off group. Otherwise known as a good old fashioned circle jerk.

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There is no better way for a married dude to get his rocks off and pretty much stay out of the doghouse. 

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You get to air your gripes, bond with other guys who are experiencing the same difficulties at home, and get your rocks off. What could be better than that?

Have a great weekend, folks!

Speaking of Circle Jerks

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If you've never been to one and would like to give it a try - in a safe environment - here's the latest opportunity: Palm Springs Bate Expo 2014 is taking place April 10 - 13.

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Founded and organized by gay porn star Billy Jack, the name says it all: Healthy. These are true jack-off group meetings, which means "no lips below the hips" and no penetration. It is strictly hands-on enjoyment of cock. Palm Springs is, arguably, the largest one of the year with several spill-over hotels offering discounts to those attending, typically sees 100+ men, of all ages, gathering together from all over the world for the single purpose of enjoying this most common, shared male activity: Jacking off. It's friendly, it's safe, and it's always fun!

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Healthy Friction actually takes place in several locations during the year. You can get informed of this latest meet-up on Billy's blog.

Healthy Friction

You are free to enjoy your cock alone

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with one or two other dudes

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or, jack together in large or small groups

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It's all about enjoying the brotherhood and wonders of cock - out in the open, in a safe environment, with no sense of shame.

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If you want to give the group thing a try, but one of Billy's meet-ups is, perhaps, too far away and costly to get to, the New York Jacks (the Granddaddy of all jack off groups) is a great resource for finding group activity closer to home.

More on Mutual

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This series of posts continues to receive comments and emails and I'm delighted! One guy had this to say,"I find your blog entertaining and educational. I think you probably have more straight guys following (or at least checking in on) your site than you think. Please throw us a "bone" once or twice a week with a hot photo of a dick in action with a hot babe."

I'm guessing he means something like this:

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But, to get back on track... Yesterday, I moaned about society's sexual mores. I had lunch with some friends and the subject of sexual education came up and how terrible it is in the US that schools are not allowed to truly teach students about sex. One friend grew up in Mexico (not sure exactly where). As seems typical, their society is much more open about sex than the US, and that, evidently, includes masturbation.

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In the sex ed class he attended students wore lab coats (perhaps so the young men could avoid embarrassment over boners?). One day the instructor split the class into 7 teams, called on the oldest male from each one, and handed them each a condom. He admonished the class there was to be no joking or laughing, that this was science. He then sent them to the men's room "to collect samples."

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The 7 young men went to the men's room and masturbated together for their semen to be inspected under microscopes. The students were able to see the difference in size, quantity, and motility, etc. of the sperm. According to my friend, the teacher did not get into trouble for this, no parent went screaming to the principal or the Board of Trustees. What a huge difference between our societies! Here in the US sexual education and knowledge is suppressed to such a drastic degree that masturbation cannot even be discussed, let alone be condoned for a class.

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Imagine how great it would be if the US could become that open. Perhaps the stigma of mutual masturbation would lift and disappear and all men could be open and honest about sharing an enjoyable activity whether it's in a group...

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Or just a couple of friends enjoying some time together.

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We All Enjoy a Good Circle Jerk

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Society's sexual attitudes and mores are weird, aren't they? Faithful Reader, Fullmoonma, reminded me that I spend an inordinate amount of time reassuring the straight dudes that jacking off with other guys doesn't affect their orientation, and goes on to say that us gay [and bi] guys enjoy a good circle jerk, too! Oh, my, yes! Yes we do!

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I responded that the straight guys need reassurances that we don't. But, I wonder if I also do it [reminding] to help spread the word to the entire straight community. The Ladies who read have husbands and significant others who might also need the reassurance that their partners haven't crossed over (nor will they).

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They also have sons. We all know the reaction of some parents to the knowledge of their sons' sexual activity. It's better for those folks to be aware that mutual masturbation is common and has no bearing whatsoever on what direction those sons will move toward in adulthood.

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For me, intellectually anyway, gay sex includes an exchange of a very broad range of activity. Jacking off is just ... well, jacking off is a simply 'a guy thing'. No matter our sexual orientation, we enjoy it and do it. We can sit in a room with a buddy, or a bunch of men, and share the experience. We might even reach over to the guy next to us, wrap a hand around his shaft, and get him off. And easily accept reciprocation.

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We might even be adventurous to go cock to cock with a guy.

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But, the thought of doing anything further doesn't arouse the straight guy. He isn't about to lower his mouth over a cock, or engage in anal penetration - though seeing someone else in the room do it might be a total turn-on.

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He'll stick to stroking and cumming.

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