A Helping Hand

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Good friends are always comfortable with one another to talk about anything that needs to be talked about. If you can do that, you have no secrets. Having no secrets, to be comfortable in your own skin, to acknowledge that the bits between your legs are normal, natural, and nakedness is nothing to cause shame.

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Yesterday, a good buddy of mine was comfortable enough to tell me he's having issues. He wakes up with good solid morning wood - but the minute he wraps his hand around it, it wilts.

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"In this case," I told him, "it's all in your mind. Though, you've got a really nice cock," [yep, I've seen it, plenty of times; even with a semi-boner] "Your brain is the biggest sex organ you have."

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He needs to relax and let his mind wander - drop himself as deeply as possible into a sexual fantasy, play with his cock and balls, and concentrate on the sensations.

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"If that doesn't work, let me know. I'll be happy to take a stab at it for you." We laughed, of course. But, I'll make a serious offer if it continues to be a problem for him. I mean, isn't that was good friends do?

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Candy to Cum

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Thanks to everyone for the well-wishes. You know it means a lot to me! Over and over again, you prove to me I am not standing in front of a mirror, blathering to myself. I'm late with today's post - errands took up my morning. So, I leave you with some lovely images to contemplate.

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And, I'll fill in blogger buddy AOM's Today's Parting Shot

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Boners, Boners, Boners

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"Boners in the morning, boners in the evening, boners at any time...All our big old boners want loving all the time!" - a reworking of "Sugartime," an old 50's pop song

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That was the story of our lives when we were young. As Faithful Reader, Lord Patrick of More of the Same, put it: "Wet Dreams! Morning Wood! Spontaneous Erections! All part of growing up a male and no one to explain what was happening."

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Then we age, and wish we could get back the (seemingly) perpetual hard-on.

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Is that the truth?

A (Man's) Natural State

The Erection.

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The boner. The hard-on. Stiffy. Woody.

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We were so embarrassed by them in our youth. Do we ever get over that problem? It appears the answer is, "No." So many men can't even bring themselves to discuss their cocks (or balls) with a physician.

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Our cocks are supposed to rise up, stand tall and firm. It's a man's natural state of being. Why is it so difficult for us to talk about; why is it so difficult - what makes us so afraid - to have our own seen? Intellectually, we fully know and recognize that all men get hard-on's; that it's an indicator of over-all health. But, for some reason, when it comes to our own, we get all red in the face, and stammer and stutter.

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Whether in mixed company, or in a group of only males it would seem we fear getting a boner.

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Any thoughts, guys? Are yours "awkward boners" - or are they a normal, physiological thing?